Midlife career changes

Why midlife career changes?

Midlife can be a time of transition for many people. Children have grown up and left home, parents may be nearing the end of their lives, 20 or so years in a job may mean boredom.

And, of course, there is the natural movement towards considering the meaning of your life, a review of your values and possibly a questioning of some decisions you've previously made.

The life you have built for yourself so that you can be comfortable, may not actually be the life of your dreams. Typically at this stage, the idea of midlife career changes raises its head.

The motivations

And there are two basic reasons for it. One is that midlife career changes may be more satisfying and fulfilling than what's going on right now. Many people think that it would allow them to be more themselves or express themselves in a different way.

The second reason is that somebody has had some kind of awakening or a shift in awareness of who they actually are, and they want to transition into doing something that is more aligned with who they are becoming.

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The results

The first scenario above leads to midlife career changes where initially everything is new and different and wonderful. Very quickly though, the individual begins to express themselves in the old ways in the new job. The same patterns begin to emerge and life begins to get very similar to before.

In the second scenario, you first develop a very strong internal sense of yourself. Then you use a decision making process to choose the things to be doing. And the career and the activities feed forward to strengthen your sense of yourself. This creates a great sense of satisfaction and fulfilment that is ongoing.

Control and stability

And simply by being this way, by being who you are, you have a profound impact on those around you. Because your sense of yourself is stable, you become a stabilising influence around which everything else organizes.

Your decision making skills are organised to keep this sense of yourself intact.

Into your future

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Making such midlife career changes assessments affects how you consider the remainder of your life. No longer is growing old associated with all the so-called negative stuff, the changing body, the slowing down, and so on.

Instead there is a pleasure in simply being alive. You actually get more creative. Neuroscientific studies show that the right and left sides of the brain integrate even more fully in midlife. Much research shows that the ageing brain actually grows stronger from use and challenge. As people age, many negative emotions seem to be dampened. Many inhibitions are reduced or disappear altogether.

You get to do those things that you have always dreamed of... you begin to live the life that you should be living, the one that is your own...