Other disciplines may have a slightly different definition of decision making, for example, games theory or computer programming have variations in their uses for the terminology. And even if you
compare models
there are variations in each models definition.
And when people ordinarily consider their own definition of decision making, it is typical that they consider that somehow it is a thinking process, with lots of mental activity involved in choosing between alternatives.
But this doesn't include the way some people make decisions. You may have heard people saying
I much prefer this particular definition of decision making:
The process of selecting from several choices products or ideas, and taking action.
Because I think when people make decisions, they actually use their whole system, not just their thinking abilities. I also consider that the
whole system approach
is considerably more effective than simply ‘thinking it through’.
Consider, for example, when somebody uses a phrase such as I knew at the time that I probably shouldn't have chosen this one, but I did it anyway. Usually what happens is that their system is making one choice, and mentally they choose something else. There are basically ignoring their own body wisdom. And later, of course, the bad decision comes back to haunt them.
The way around this so that you make good decisions is obviously to learn your own signals in your physical system so that you recognize them when they occur. And the most important thing is to pay attention to the signals!
The evidence for this lies not just in the defination of decision making (see above) but the emphasis in most of the
decision making models
is on the strategies for making the most rational, logical and sensible choice.
You can read an
overview of decision making
here with a brief description of models, styles and evaluating decisions.
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